Escaping the fear of trying too hard
Trying too hard, especially without self-awareness, is something which many people want to avoid because of the vicarious embarrassment it creates in others. The fear of being seen as cringe holds people back from embracing and wholeheartedly pursing their own interests. Young people in particular can feel pressurised to conform to mainstream tastes in order to avoid becoming a target of mockery, especially online, where scrutiny can be intense and judgment harsh. Meanwhile the counter-reaction, which proclaims that “cringe culture is dead,” does not present a genuinely satisfactory alternative. Although this counter-movement proposes that people should uninhibitedly pursue their own passions regardless of other people’s opinions, it mostly simply embraces the same things as cringe culture mocked, irrespective of their merit. Real freedom from the fear of other people’s judgment does not come through the bravado of denying that we care what anyone else thinks of us. Our sights should be set on something higher than the fun of finding our own niche and the joy of self-fulfilment. It’s more about having a passion for something that is truly excellent in itself and realising that, regardless of whether it brings us lots of likes or tons of negative feedback, it’s too valuable not to pursue. That something, in the view of Andrew Gray, is salvation. Andrew Gray noticed that the advice of the Proverbs is to be diligent, especially in making our peace with God, being reconciled to Christ, and preparing for heaven. In the following updated and condensed excerpt, Andrew Gray challenges us to be diligent about the righteousness and holiness which God requires.
Diligence makes us rich
Solomon says, “The hand of the diligent maketh rich” (Proverbs 10:4). Diligence makes a Christian rich in experience, rich in love, rich in humility, and, for that matter, rich in all the spiritual things in heaven. If you were diligent, who knows what you wouldn’t achieve!
We don’t have much time
But, Christians, “the night is coming, wherein none will see to work” (John 9:4). Our time to remain in this valley of misery is only short. For all you know, this may be the eleventh hour of the day for you, and you may only have one hour left, but your everlasting destiny depends on the use you make of the time you’ve got. Therefore, be diligent.
If you mis-spend your time, it is impossible to recover the loss. “Therefore, while it is called ‘today,’ harden not your hearts, but hearken to his voice” (Hebrews 4:7). Some of you who are hearing me now will end up standing on the brink between time and eternity and remember what that man said, and will be forced to cry out, “Call time back again! Call time back!” But it will be a fruitless request. Therefore, be diligent.
The task is important
Christians, you have a great work. Therefore be diligent! Isn’t putting sin to death a great work? Isn’t self-denial a great work? Isn’t patiently bearing the cross a great work? Don’t you have a long journey to go? Therefore, be diligent!
Other people put this much effort into much more worthless things
To encourage you to exercise the excellent grace of diligence, consider the great diligence and effort that worldly people put towards pursuing their idols. Christians, doesn’t it put you to shame to see one of them compassing sea and land to gain some trivial inheritance? Won’t you put in as much effort to attain an everlasting crown? Are the people of the world not only wiser but also more diligent than the children of light (Luke 16:8)? Let the competition begin! They get up before daybreak to purchase a vanity, but you leave it till after dawn to obtain a crown!
Diligence leads to certain success
The diligent Christian is the overcomer. What will help you to overcome your sins and idols? Just this, Be diligent. “The hand of the diligent shall bear rule” (Proverbs 12:24). Why are you overruled? Just because you are not diligent but slothful. I can answer almost all the excuses you can make with these three words, be diligent, be diligent, and be diligent. How is it that the devil never so much as attacks you but he gets the victory over you? The answer is, you’re not diligent!
Apathy brings its own disadvantages
Think of the exceedingly great disadvantages that attend the slothful.
The five things it kills
Slothfulness kills five things.
Convictions. We sometimes go home from precious sermons convicted, but what do we do with the convictions? They die without any kind of fruit, for slothfulness kills them all.
Resolutions. Slothfulness kills many precious resolutions, vows and covenants. Christians go away from the service with some good purposes and holy resolutions, but we sleep them off, and slothfulness slays them all.
Desires. Slothfulness kills many precious desires for God and for the excellent things of heaven.
Good impulses. Slothfulness kills many excellent motions of the spirit. When Christ comes and knocks, why do we slight Him? “I have put off my coat, how can I put it on again? And I have washed my feet, how shall I defile them?” (Song 5:3), and so Christ goes away.
Opportunities to enjoy God. Slothfulness kills many excellent enjoyments of God. When a Christian has managed to get close to God, do you want to know what it is that spreads a veil over the face of lovely Christ? It is slothfulness. We fall asleep on the bed and let Christ depart without us noticing.
The three things it breeds
Then, slothfulness breeds three things: complacency; conceit and presumption; and spiritual decay.
Its three consequences
Slothfulness clothes you with rags. “For the drunkard and the glutton shall come to poverty, and drowsiness shall clothe a man with rags” (Proverbs 23:21). What makes that change of clothes? What rips the party-coloured dress? What makes you unsuitable to king’s children? Just slothfulness.
Slothfulness makes all duties unpleasant. What makes you lose heart in prayers, preaching, communions? Slothfulness. “The way of a slothful man is as an hedge of thorns” (Proverbs 15:19), and that is a most unpleasant gate. Praying, preaching, taking the Lord’s supper, will never be sweet to you till you are diligent.
And slothfulness interrupts many precious manifestations of Christ. Do you want to know the reason why Christians have so many complaints about Christ being absent? It’s because of their slothfulness.
It takes diligence to get to heaven
I beseech you to be diligent, because many have come short of heaven for lack of it. “Strive to enter in at the strait gate,” why? “Because many shall seek to enter in, and shall not be able” (Luke 13:24). Do you not know that dreadful greeting, “Depart from me, thou slothful person, and wicked servant”? (Matt. 25:26).
Diligence is what God expects
I beg you to be diligent, because Christ has commanded it. I’d advise you to obey the king’s commandment, especially because it comes with the oath of God.
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